“But I am like an olive tree flourishing in the house of God; I trust in God's unfailing love for ever and ever”. Psalm 52:8

2/15/2010

Learning to love



Living with Vitoria's presence has been a great joy. I am a mother and have a baby to love and care for. My daughter has made me rethink many things. Why do we have children? Before she was born, I had many answers to this question. Nowadays, not so many. Nevertheless, I feel this great joy and desire to be a mother. Before Vitoria, I thought I wanted a child to see her grow, help her develop and become a healthy, happy adult, someone with confidence and high values. I wanted to teach my child to love God and help others, and also to give me happiness during my elder years. Will I live all these moments with Vitoria? I don't know. The doctors say I won't. Many friends and relatives also think I won't. I myself think that maybe I won't. However, I do not have many certainties in this life anymore. I no longer feel anxious about the future.

Honestly, the future does not concern me now. Vitoria's future isn't the most important thing right now. Her present is. And her present, despite its fragility. brings me much joy. It brings me life. Her present is so relevant, so important. It is strange. This child, who received so many death sentences, whose death was and still is expected by doctors, relatives, friends, this child only brings me life. I had never felt so alive and happy like I did during my pregnancy. So free. Despite the fact that I had some sad and uncertain moments.

Vitoria brought me strength to live, to fight, to be happy against all odds. My daughter taught me to see God like a real father, who takes care of me, and to whom I can cry for help and, then, rest. Vitoria taught me to trust. To really trust, without doubts. Without objections.

Going back to the initial question, why do we have children? Right now I do not know if I'll be able to experience certain moments with my daughter. Right now all I have is the present time. I cannot talk about her future and the expectations I have for her, like parents usually do. I do not feel frustrated or unhappy as a mother, though. The only thing I can think of is that I want to have my daughter to love her; to learn how to love; to get to know her and make her feel loved; very much loved.

I think we have children so that we can love.

2 comments:

  1. Rafaela Drey2/16/2010 7:48 PM

    Querida Joana!
    Tenho acompanhando, através da Ivana, todas as notícias da pequena Vitória, desde o primeiro dia de vida dela.
    Todos aqui em casa estão orando por vocês, especialmente eu, que ainda estou maravilhada pelo milagre da vida acontecendo de forma tão bonita.
    Embora eu ainda não seja mãe, acredito que a Vitória é o presente por vocês terem acreditado na vida dela e na fé inabalável em Deus, que, como vemos, tudo pode.
    Vou acompanhar o blog para aprender também sobre a vida e sobre a morte, e para ver as fotos lindas da tua família, especialmente as da fofa Vitória.
    Um grande abraço no coração de todos,
    Rafa

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  2. A Paz Jo,

    Eu tenho certeza que a Vitória vai ser curada e testemunhará poderosamente sobre os prodigios de Deus. Sorria diante do futuro, o Céu é nosso alvo, e a ressureição é uma certeza e a nossa maior esperança. A Vitória é uma pessoa salva, isto é o mais importante, mas mesmo assim, eu ainda tenho esperança de cura, e mais do que esperança, fé em uma vida boa para ela, e ela já tem demonstrado isso muito acima da expectativa de muitos. Ela nasceu para o honra e glória de Deus, debaixo de oração, com pais cristãos, o poder de Deus não tem limites, ela vive no sobrenatuaral de Deus, é forte, é vida, ela está te ajudando, você está mais bonita do que nunca, numa serenidade, e paz que só Deus pode explicar, você está mais madura e brilhando o brilho de Deus Jô, fique firme e simplesmente tenha certeza de suas convicções. Parabéns por este privilégio que é ser uma mãe de joelhos diante do Rei dos Reis e Senhor dos Senhores. Ele abençoará toda a sua casa e sua fidelidade. No amor de Jesus, Juliana

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